Comments on The Mirror of Aphrodite: Experiences With A Taurus Male

as we can see ladies not many of the taurus men co...

2012-02-08T20:31:12.478-05:00

as we can see ladies not many of the taurus men come on to talk about anything so most of this must be true lol

omg... so totally true. its a little scary. i beca...

2012-02-08T17:02:32.510-05:00

omg... so totally true. its a little scary. i became friends with a taurus. a married one at that. he was there for me no matter what and was always comforting me and entertaining me and spending all his spare time with me. as soon as i let my guard down and really trusted him, he let it be known he had feelings for me. he said his marriage wasnt the best. and that he didnt love his wife anymore. but was staying for the kids. so we had a secret relationship for over a year together. he would always create opportunities where we could be together sexually. i tried to end the relationship between us many times. i would explain to him that i loved him dearly, but it wasnt giving me what i needed from a relationship. that it saddened me he wasnt at home with me. and he would always play the passive card and quietly convince me that what we were doing was enough. eventually i did walk away. and he was devistated. and now that i look at it, he was devistated because he didnt have me idolizing him anymore. he didnt have me to manipulate and control.

its funny how every taurian always says they are an open book. yet all questions u ask them are answered extremely short and give absolutely no information ur after. they can be moody and sulk alot too. prob to get their own way through guilt.

the sad thing is also, i have since found out that i wasnt the first lover on the side he had. and i dont doubt there will be several others. if they arent being fullfilled in a relationship, they are quite happy to find it elsewhere. and are very good in decieving everyone around them for their ultimate goal.

on a lighter note. i do love a taurus man. i find them extremely sexy and alluring. i am kind of attracted to the idea they are a puzzle never to be solved. but ive learned how to identify what their goals are very quickly now. so can essentially win at their game.

i do like their sensitive side, and they can be extremely loving.

im now dating my third taurian man. and its funny how similar they are. but the idea of it is not to let them know that u know what their goal is. lol.

Mirror Mirror on the wall... Ok, i'll play for...

2012-02-08T15:25:32.331-05:00

Mirror Mirror on the wall...
Ok, i'll play for a moment.
I'm a Pisces female. I was contacted by a former childhood sweetheart,it's been over 20 years since we've seen each other. He's a Taurus. It's complicated. Very complicated. I appreciate what you've shared. Tell me, does it frustrate the Taurus male when the Woman instinctively knows what he's up to anyways? lol...Taurus Men are so damn...

A taurus male told me i will always be hbis frien...

2012-02-08T13:52:09.593-05:00

A taurus male told me i will always be hbis friend but both of us have feelings for eachother will a taurus male just say what he thinks you want to hear just to get what he wants
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SO ALL THE GAME PLAYING IS TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN GET...

2012-02-08T13:48:16.165-05:00

SO ALL THE GAME PLAYING IS TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN GET . AND IF SHE DO GIVE OF HERSELF IS THAT A BAD THING FOR TAURUS MALE

so taurus male when its said to a woman that she i...

2012-02-08T13:42:31.238-05:00

so taurus male when its said to a woman that she is a special person to him what is that what do it mean?

I am a Taurus male.And I'm engaged to a saggit...

2012-02-08T05:07:46.132-05:00

I am a Taurus male.And I'm engaged to a saggitarious female.I think about 80% of those statement are absolutely untrue.The ones that are right are dead right but most of it is wayyyyy off.I was absolutely crazy about her ever since I first seen her.I actually met her through her cousin who I was having a love affair with (she was a Taurus) but anyway the first day I seen her was about 4 a.m. in the morning and I couldn't even have sex with her cousin because she attracted me so much! I just wanted to touch her so bad! Not sexually I just wanted to feel her.But anyway it went backward I did my usual game.I flirt I am amazing at word play I always have been ever since I was little.No matter who it was I have ALWAYS got whatever I set my mind to.And 90% of the time I got it through my charm and flirting my confidence.But I did this to her but she didn't get drawn in? She did slightly but she just wasn't completely in to me and I dont know why but this bothered me soooooooooo bad! It drove me crazy I spent day and night trying to impress her and make her love me! But she just didn't show me enough love.I wanted her to show me love then I would show her love times a billion.That's all I wanted to do was make her happy.And my jealousy.That is a taurians worst trait.My jealous tore our relationship apart and I almost ended up in prison.You see another guy tried to come into our relationship and she talked to him twice after she said she wouldn't so I drove everywhere looking for him with a baseball bat because I was going to break his jaw.BUT then I got arrested.And then anger management but anyway.For some reason I could not get my mind of of this women! I'm jail all I did was write in a journal mostly poems of her songs and the like.And when I got out I begged her and begged her every moment I was awake for 6 months.Then I just stopped because she said she was pregnant with another mans baby.So I started dating some random girl to get back at her and I completely blocked her out of my life.Then I waited.I waited and waited and I knew that she would come back.I was patient.And one day she texted me and said she missed me and that she lied about being pregnant.I asked her to come see me I played
guitar and sang her a song.told her I loved her.Literally had sex for 3 hours straight.We laughed we both said we missed each other.We cried We kissed and
then we cuddled all night....2 years later we are still together and we are very happy and we are having a baby together and oh joy :) it's a little Taurus male just like his daddy!

o one more thing pisces lady dont push him take ur...

2012-02-07T19:49:03.534-05:00

o one more thing pisces lady dont push him take ur time stay lady like look good smell good all that u have a power over him i know i do over the one i talk to i always be myself im loveing and giveing and he knows this about me so i have to watch not to be to giveing so i wont be vulerable to him but i would give him anything i have i think he know that to we may have to help eachother cuz as u see taurus males are men of little words i learned that i will b 47 next month he is younger than i am

wow im a pisces woman who has a taurus male friend...

2012-02-07T19:40:38.038-05:00

wow im a pisces woman who has a taurus male friend i have to say we are like milk and cookies we go together but the timeing isnt rite . i havent talk to him in a few weeks but i feel like if its ment to be it will .to the pisces lady befor me i also was told im a special person sure want to know what that means cuz i so like him older than him but its ok time will tell pisces lady i know how u feel im in the same boat lol

same Pisces lady here, I want to add that I am the...

2012-02-07T12:08:36.208-05:00

same Pisces lady here, I want to add that I am the lady from his "pool" who got the bracelet the neckless and the earrings....does that confirm I am the special one as he says???? I really cant care less about the other ladies, I have two samall kids to grow so no much time for anything more like a vacation with him.....but still I want to belive what he text me last night, and that he likes what we have and he feels vulnerable at the idea wheatehr we can "keep it up"....is he for real? help

Hello, I am a 47 Pisces lady who is slowly falling...

2012-02-07T12:01:31.223-05:00

Hello, I am a 47 Pisces lady who is slowly falling for a 51 Taurus man...ans the description is perfect. We met on a dating site, he was "looking for a permanent relationship" and then found out he sees LOTS of ladies...I let him call and direct this "relationship" I am not jelous I told him, but I need to feel I am special...and he tells me everyday, but he tells me he cannot commit to a woman with two small kids (his kids are over 25) ....he text me the other night that he cares deeply for me, but he cannot let anybody dictate the way he has to live....I know I am falling , but I try to keep my distance ad see what happens..

I want to understand how and why this Taurus guy m...

2012-02-04T21:41:16.929-05:00

I want to understand how and why this Taurus guy makes me feel like he cares and doesn't care at the same time. He texts me first and then takes for ever to respond and then doesn't seem to want to continue the conversation. That's just one example and I don't understand him...please help me Mirror of Aphrodite :(

Thank you for responding! I am the Jan 21 post. I ...

2012-02-02T01:18:50.543-05:00

Thank you for responding! I am the Jan 21 post. I know I'm just going to not bother thinking about him in any other way but a friend. I can't do that to myself again because he really does have this powerful vodo spell as I like to call it lol. Good luck to all the women being spelled but these Taurus men :(

lol ! i havent read everything but i am a capricor...

2012-01-29T23:00:12.181-05:00

lol ! i havent read everything but i am a capricorn, and ive just recently been hired at this job... turns out i have a thing for the delivery boy... he would be the taurus. he is so cute, and funny.. and hes got my full attention. i always catch him giving me these.. deep deep stares. like, sooo deep, i can feel him reaching into my soul.. and i cant help it. i can never look away. well, i do so my boss doesnt look n be like hey now ! lmao. but.. hes just so cute. hes a dork. beautiful curly hair with braces !!! but very handsome.. i love those eyes. lol idk i dont like big buff guys or nothing, those are usually the whores. this boy is just an adorable wild horse... he sparks my fuse !!! everytime he gives me that look... like if hes trying to see farther off into me.. like he can see more than my eyes. i havent felt this way since middle school (; im 18 lol. hes so adorable... i remember LOL he started laughing cause i was like oh, you know who you look like ? n he was like -sigh- whooo??? n i was like you ever seen beavis and butthead ? LOL he looks like butthead !! but a very cute, real version of butthead. lmfao. he calls me smurfette cause of my shortness. well ! i hope he'll take me under his wing.. hes character got me wrapped around his pretty little finger.

Response to mirror of Aphrodite (january 29, 2011-...

2012-01-29T12:38:31.557-05:00

Response to mirror of Aphrodite (january 29, 2011-cancer anonymous)

I agree completely with your advice and i have made myself disappear from his life (its been 2 days). Last month he even introduced me to his mother, aunt and cousin who all said he talks about me all the time. Were they in on his plan too? How could he go from that to not even caring about my feelings after we made plans? The mystery I may never figure out!

Thank you again for the advice!

To Anonymous of January 21st, I hate to say this, ...

2012-01-29T12:04:24.328-05:00

To Anonymous of January 21st,
I hate to say this, but your gut is telling you that you're plan B and you should listen to it. Right now, you're in his "pool" of friends referenced above in the post. And most likely, that's where he will keep you if you permit him to float in and out of your life as he is, lame excuses and all. If you want to still be his friend, that's fine. But you need to take back some control here by setting boundaries with him. If he's treating you with disregard, then I'd say that's how to approach this from now on - kinda like, "Oh hey, it's you." If you start jumping through hoops for him, he'll make a circus monkey outta you, regretfully. So when he snaps his fingers, you show up when YOU want to, not when HE demands you to. And if he starts taking you more seriously, that's when you begin to do the same for him - but not one minute sooner. Maintain control and dignity here.

To Anonymous on January 28th,
Good for you! I'm glad you can see him for what he is now. Don't get me wrong guys, not all men are bad and not all Taurus men are bad. But unfortunately, what we're all seeing here are a lot of Taurus men behaving badly and disrespectfully. He is NOT your friend. Friends don't treat each other with disregard and when friends break plans, they are apologetic about it. Why? Because friends care. If someone's treating you like this and doesn't care about your feeliings, they are a FOE, not a friend.

And with this one, in particular, considering how he's treated you in the past - and provided no explanations for his behavior thus proving he doesn't care about your feelings - I'd completely disappear without any explanation as he's done to you.

I'm not saying you treat everyone or every man like this - but for the ones who treat you in this manner - I believe it's perfectly acceptable behavior.

All is fair in love and war.

Response to Mirror of Aphrodite (cancer girl anony...

2012-01-28T19:45:01.321-05:00

Response to Mirror of Aphrodite (cancer girl anonymous from September 27, 2011)
Well, I did listen to your advice finally and just deleted the Taurus from my Facebook, twitter, and messenger. However, it took a while as he definitely had me thinking we are friends the last few months. This past week though we finally met up again with a group of people we used to work with (I recently left my job-also because I wanted to stop seeing him at work). Him and I ended up alone after everyone went home, and again we made plans to meet a few days later so I can help him with a project. Of course this meeting never happened, he gave me a time we were going to meet and then said he was still busy and asked to meet later that evening and that he would message me soon to let me know the time. He never sent the message. I guess he changed his mind or perhaps had the chance to be with another girl. He knows im married and can see pictures of me on Facebook with my husband, don't know if this is his issue, but you were right! He is not a friend! And now I deleted him for the 4th and final time. Just wonder why he couldn't state in his message that he couldn't make the meeting that day at all. It's such a simple thing, but it's like he wanted me to feel rejected on purpose. He did say that if it won't work for that day he's free all day Thursday's to Sunday's, again the lack of respect for my time and making me waste a day waiting for him was what did it for me.
very strange!

Anonymous

quistion to the mirror of aphrodite hello im a pi...

2012-01-27T16:49:45.320-05:00

quistion to the mirror of aphrodite hello im a pisces woman and i like to knoe why is it that a taurus male will make plans then break them at the last minite what should i do about this

Cancer woman completely smitten by a taurus man. ...

2012-01-26T00:48:14.602-05:00

Cancer woman completely smitten by a taurus man.

He embodies a great deal of charicteristics that you all descibed...

He does pull hot and cold, push and pull on me.

But, I understand him so well. I know he's working on big things in his life and once he feels secure, he sees me in his future. It is flattering, to say the least. God, I want to love him so much. Can't wait until the day...

Patience is a virtue. Worth having if you've got a good bull around. I think he's the best.

<3

TM” Deceitful is inexcusable regardless of the sig...

2012-01-25T14:14:05.016-05:00

TM”
Deceitful is inexcusable regardless of the sign or type of men. Playing games is too subjective with a one sided conversation (You, him and the truth). Now being patient is another thing! A Taurus man doesn’t like being cadged physically or emotionally so patients is in order. I can’t give you any time limit (remember you can move on), I am no help on that, but I would say he is watching,, he is always watching. His movement towards you or away from you is 100 % on you. What’s unique about us ,,, we love to be loved. Understand one thing,, he is around for a reason….( this wont be spoken until he is all yours,, look for it and accentuate it) we don’t hang around things we don’t like!
I’m sad to say that this grail has to be found like any other,,, once found the world is yours….
Peace

Mirror of Aphrodite pleaseeee help my situation ou...

2012-01-23T22:17:13.155-05:00

Mirror of Aphrodite pleaseeee help my situation out. I'm the anonymous from January 21, 2012 at 5:31pm. As you can tell I'm in desperate need of help and the past few days I've been really upset over my situation. Thank you!

virgo woman and is involved with a taurus man. the...

2012-01-22T20:58:48.311-05:00

virgo woman and is involved with a taurus man. the connection upon meeting for the first time was obvious. he noticed me immediately & "surveyed" me from top to bottom (as he tells me) in a public pub/club. Believe it or not, he is very articulate with details of moments that he deems worthy & has the uncanny ability to recollect scenery, convos, faces, places, time, etc with ease. he tells me everyday how he feels & is very attentive to my needs. especially with my sexual desires. for i have become a woman that enjoys the great pleasurs of sex so my sexual appetite excites & motivates him too. we're alike in so many ways with culture, personality qualities, humor, mannerisms, b/g history that as if he's a male version of my ownself. there's no undenying our strong physical and emotional attraction. i do believe that we were designed to meet at this time & learn with eachother to build a strong foundation for the long-term. i do have my reservations about him and this friendship as i like to call it, but i sense that he knows where stands with his feelings towards me and has no qualms of shielding it from me. he's very open & honest with me. & i admire that about him. he's not lazy or disrespectful. he tells me everyday how beautiful and very happy he is with me. for me, ive decided to really take my time & be absolutely sure that this is my second chance at LOVE. we're both hopeless romantics, he already gone thru divorce & my own, plus, he has two kids (boy & girl) and i with my two sons that our friendship will be a modern day samoan blended family.

I can not believe how precise some of these posts ...

2012-01-21T17:31:18.180-05:00

I can not believe how precise some of these posts are. I am a Taurus female and am currently in "something" with a Taurus Male. I would really appreciate any advice from Taurus guys or anyone that knows... Here it is..

I met this guy years ago and we were acquaintances. Then last year we ran into each other and started hanging out. For the 4/5 months we hung out, I was the most lost and confused I've ever been in my life regarding a man. When we were actually together I thought he liked me but when we were just texting I felt like just a friend. He mentioned to me that his Ex broke up with him and my woman instinct was clearly he still loves her. He also was going through a lot with his family because his father had cancer and regretfully pasted while we were hanging out. All of these things put troubles for us of course.

So probably one of the last times we hung out he told me he likes me but can't be in a relationship because he't not in that mind set due to his family and all that. But I had a feeling it was because of his lingering feelings for his ex as well. He also told me he doesn't want to stop talking to be basically meaning he wants me around just in case he wants me. During this time and after we stopped talking I was so hurt and insecure and I felt like I wasn't good enough for this person and it really killed me emotionally.(as a note we never kissed or anything because he never tried maybe once but he seemed so shy but he was VERY touchy around the neck and back massages and all)

A few weeks later I had in fact found out that he got back with his ex. From that time up until a month ago he had been texting me every few months as if just so he stays in my mind. He started contact again and I found out the ex once again broke it off with him months ago. I just feel like a plan B with this guy but I can't seem to let go. We hung out a few times since and he told me that last time around he didn't try anything with me because he respected me and didn't want to ruin our relationship and is just going through a lot because of the emotionally stress with the loss of his father. Last time we hung out he kissed me and told me how confused he is after I said what we're doing isn't right and its just confusing both of us. I just don't know what to do. I don't know how to deal with this because I feel like he has a lot going on with his dad and the fact that Taurus men don't seem to get over ex's that easy. I don't want to be that girl he's just wasting some time with. I'm 24 and he is 29 and both Taurus. I'm so lost and I would really appreciate any insight or help. Thank you guys and I hope we all figure these men out.

I am currently talking to a Taurus male and he'...

2012-01-18T20:06:03.542-05:00

I am currently talking to a Taurus male and he's a little younger than I am. In the beginning he was "strange" in that he wanted to talk to my friend to understand what kind of person I am. When that didn't work, he disappeared then returned using indirect means. I think he takes everything I say and do to heart because we did fight once but not too long afterwards we made up. Anywho, so eventually he opened up to me....( in his own weird and distracted way) and told me he likes me. We are long distance so he was kind of hesitant at first...but I told him that we can date until we both get our lives together. He was cool with it and he showed me a side of him that i didn't know he had. sweet and just so cute and silly. I felt so happy with him...more so than with anyone else and with just only a few words. However, i noticed i was jealous of his friends because he spent more time with them. im normally carefree and independent and dont really care if a guy im with is out and about...but i feel as if he and I don't have a solid foundation for me to feel secure with that yet. He would text me then never reply and it bothered me. I tried breaking up with him because it hurt to bad but he ignored the break up letter and continued to act like nothing happened. Then I sent him another email explaining how his actions are bothering me but when he decides to come back Im always here for him. Still no response.

Honestly, im beginning to loose hope. I don't like when my feelings are disregarded. I just hope he has a problem with his phone, but what about laptops and stuff? i just want to know he's ok.

before this one , I dated a taurus man that was older than me and he was abusive.

hmmmmm idk...i think i might just walk away from men all together. SO MANY ISSUES.

To the taurus male January 16, 2012 3:27 PM. I kno...

2012-01-18T12:24:03.259-05:00

To the taurus male January 16, 2012 3:27 PM. I know how you feel about dating a scorpio. I was married to a scorpio for 13yrs. Sexually we were compatible, but on an emotional level we were not ment for each other. He had 4 affairs behind my back and each time i caught him and forgave him. But the last time was well the last. I am glad he is out of my life. Recently i met a taurus male and i have fallen deeply for him, but he shows no interest (read comment December 12, 2011 12:36 PM ) and (January 9, 2012 12:46 PM )maybe for your point of view you can give me insight. As about the virgo girl, if you play your cards right you will have a match made in heaven. I date a virgo before i met my ex husband and to this day we still have abond that time will not even break. Good Luck.