Getting hurt stinks, and getting even isn't always the answer - but it sure can feel good sometimes, right?
When attempting to exact your revenge on an Aries, consider the astrological landscape in the Aries profile. For that matter, consider the Aries themselves. Take a look at the depiction here in this picture. . .understand now?
Being a fire sign with great force and energy, you have to do this right. Aries is the leader of the zodiac. The first, the one, the one and only (according to them). As the leader, and the only cardinal (initiator, starter) fire sign in the zodiac, Aries like to start things.
So what's the best way to exact revenge on an Aries - start something first. Keep your Aries one step behind you and you'll send them spiraling out of control. And what could be worse to the Aries? Yep, you got it - loss of control. Loss of leadership. Loss of power and strength. Poke a hole in the proverbial Arien's sails. Or his air mattress, for that matter, huh Michelle?
Over at Seduction Central, a knowledgeable astrologer by the name of Jeffrey Kishner, wrote a post titled: How to get even with an Aries.
Here's an excerpt from the post:
Aries is ruled by Mars, the warrior planet. This sign is also at the start of the zodiacal wheel, signifying beginnings, the burst of new life corresponding with the Spring Equinox. But that's not why you are here. An Aries man (or woman) screwed you over, and you want revenge!
An Aries man wants to initiate, to pioneer ... and what better way to get even than to stop him in his tracks! Saturn is the planet of obstacles and delays. Frustrate him by taking the wind out of his sails! Anything you can do to throw a brick wall in front of him will suffice.
Calling on an authority figure (ruled by Saturn) like a judge, the police or a boss will work wonders. A restraining order, some disciplinary action ... imagine how aggravating it will be for your Aries to get punished, when all he wants is to get ahead. . . . .
There are a lot of great comments on this post over at Jeff's site, Seduction Central. Be sure to visit, read the full post, and read some first hand experiences of the site's visitors. Jeff runs a great site, chalk full of astrological insights into relationships of all kinds.
Ask him a question, and chances are he'll even answer it for you - Thanks, Jeff!
9 Comments:
Love your post on the Aries male. I can certainly vouch for everything said here, but I would have to say that ten steps ahead is a lot better. Love that Aries male...every woman should have a least one in her life. LadyBull
I am an Aries male and I would like to point out that we take those sort of distractions and fall backs very seriously at first. As time goes on we overcome them quite easily and I should mention that we still end up further ahead one way or another. After all, our personalities demand that we pull ourselves out of those situations and end up in the leading position again. Eventually, as we move on to our prime, we get back at those who have tried to sabotage us and they all end up humiliated and looking like fools for even trying. In the end Aries will not fail.
Frank - you are definitely an Arien male!
i don't know why anyone would even bother trying to hurt a aries male there are not as they seem trust me i am very close friend with a aries male he tells me everything if you are trying to look for a way to hurt them its because they have hurt you first right!!!!! well you only see the tip of the ice berg there goal in a relationship is to be the best lover the can be for you and expect 100% in return they are very generous with money and time if you are too if he hurt you its because that was the only way he could show his feelings i am not saying it was right what ever hid did and i can assure you he regrets it now its all because you didn't listen to him and if your looking to hurt him well your about too lose the best friend or lover you will ever no as a lover they just want to make you feel like no other man can they will fight for you till the day they die and will risk there life to save yours if they need to you have hurt them you just don't see how yet talk to him ask him why and try too put your self in his shoes and you will see he only did it because that was the only way to make you realise how you hurt him you gave him no other choice and if your are going to hurt him well then after you finished find a safe place to hide and stay there for the rest of your life now other man can keep you safe from an aries man trust me
you sound just like my ARIES wife little girl.
Signed: Pisces husband
Sorry Anonymous,
No little girl here. And the gentlemen that wrote the full post is no little girl either.
Doesn't surprise me that sensitive Pisces would take offense though. Don't fret tender Pisces. No one is out to get you. . .
Except maybe that Aries wife of yours. . . if you've screwed her over and "deceived" her somehow :-)
All in good fun . . .
My Aries boyfriend got someone pregnant! Initially he was begging me to forgive him, now he seems to have this wall up to hide from my anger and theias chicks agnger becsue he won't be with her. I'm SO upset but I don't know how to sting him! He's already deflated/defeated...at least he acts like it. But I don't care...kick him while he's down is what I want to do...just don't know how. Suggestions?
To anonymous whose boyfriend got someone else pregnant - it's just like the article says, "So what's the best way to exact revenge on an Aries - start something first. Keep your Aries one step behind you and you'll send them spiraling out of control. And what could be worse to the Aries? Yep, you got it - loss of control. Loss of leadership. Loss of power and strength. Poke a hole in the proverbial Arien's sails."
Aries love control, attention, leading - and basically having everyone march to the beat of THEIR drum. So one way to irritate them, is to take all of that away from them. Don't follow, don't compete, don't give any attention. The best thing to do is to just make him go away and proceed as if he no longer exists.
Besides, if he's behaving irresponsibly (which he obviously IS, he did get someone pregnant so he obviously wasn't acting responsibly), you don't want him by your side anyway. Shake him off your leg and don't look back. If you do, he'll most likely only bring you more pain in the future and now, with a child on the way, you don't want to get bogged down or wrapped up in his poor decisions anyway. Cut your losses, keep your dignity - and WALK.
He's disrespected you. Now it's your turn. Command his respect, just like Pantera sang - RESPECT - WALK!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qRVNyot34o
They cheat and are the most selfish of all. Generous to make up for their infidelity and temper tantrums. ONLY if you're willing to be 2nd and a servant for the rest of your life should you marry a aries man. You will lose your soul and he will screw around on you. I know one that his wife KILLED herself after 13 years of marriage because he wouldn't let her go. She was only 35.
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